We love Him because He first loved us. I John 4:19
There is something written in the heart of man that yearns to be loved and to know that the deep things in our heart have been heard by the one we love.
Clearly, the whole gospel is built on relationships, first with God and then with others.
The Ten Commandments deals with relationships. The first four commandments speak to our relationship with God,
the last six with one another. Marriage, parenting and friendships are all lived out in the context of relationship. The Body of Christ is relational in nature. We were made for love and relationship!
One of the most meaningful aspects of a relationship is the sharing of hearts and a key element in sharing hearts is the desire to be heard. There is something so satisfying about another person saying, “I have heard your heart and I understand.”
God hears the heart
In reading the Psalms we see that David often cried out to the Lord for understanding. He was confident that God would hear and respond, bringing salvation, deliverance from his enemies, or restoration, as was his nature.
David said in Psalm 17, “Hear a just cause, O Lord,
Attend to my cry;
Give ear to my prayer…
…I have called upon You, for You will hear me, O God;
Incline Your ear to me, and hear my speech.
To hear means: to become aware of, to listen to and consider, to take notice of, to pay attention to. David is asking God to “incline His ear” to him, to take notice of him and to pay attention to the cry of his heart. Are you thinking, “Now that is bold!”? No, that is the nature of relationship!
It is in the hearing of one another that real relationship occurs and intimacy happens. It begins with our knowing that God really hears us. He wants to establish relationship with us. He wants to have conversations with us. He wants us to feel safe with Him. He wants to establish intimacy with us.
David said, “I waited patiently for the Lord; And He inclined to me, And heard my cry (Psalm 40:1).
He expressed his love for the Lord “because He has heard my voice… because He has inclined His ear to me, therefore, I will call upon Him as long as I live.” (Psalm 116:1-2). When I think of David saying that God inclined His ear towards him, I can picture God bending down and leaning into the conversation in such a relational way.
David encourages us to “Trust in Him at all times… Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us.” Pour means to give full expression to what is in your heart (Psalm 62:8).
Relationship is a two-way conversation
The Father speaks quite clearly and lovingly about our need to hear Him, as well.
“Blessed is the man who listens to Me, watching daily at My gates, waiting at the posts of My doors” (Proverbs 8:34).
“Whoever listens (hears and responds) to Me will dwell safely, and will be secure, without fear of evil” (Proverbs 1:33).
Negative voices are loud and persistent
We live in a world filled with negative voices – real or imagined. They are the voices that say, “You didn’t do it right, you are worthless, unlovable, no one really cares about you and what you have to say is not important.” The negative voices are so loud and persistent that they become easy to believe.
But our Father wants us to know how beloved we are, how important we are to Him:
He listens.
He hears!
He does not walk away before you are through speaking.
He doesn’t ignore you.
He isn’t preoccupied or disinterested.
He is not nervous or uncomfortable with your feelings and emotions.
He knows the sound of your voice.
His heart is moved by your words, and touched by your situation.
He is stirred, open and compassionate towards you.
Know, even as David knew, that when you speak, God is listening, hearing, inclining Himself towards you.
Let His voice silence all other voices.
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